Confidentiality

I never disclose any information about you to any other parties. This includes all personal information. Your privacy and confidentiality are assured. I respect the complexity caused to maintaining multiple identities among your home, work and personal lives. I will do nothing to compromise those roles.  Do you want a certain response from me if we should meet on the street? It's your call.

Sometimes I’m asked if I’m “discreet.”  That’s code for asking if I’ll embarrass or make trouble for you at your home or workplace.  Stop and think: it really works the other way around. You know where I live and work (things I don’t know about you.) If I were to cause trouble, your retaliation or aggression could cause me problems among my neighbors, landlord or authorities, not the other way around.

Having had intimate relationships with both genders, I appreciate and understand men regardless of their place on the Kinsey scale.  My married or partnered clients usually have no plans to change their home life. Instead, they just want to hold, handle and be held and handled by a mature, muscled man.  I deeply respect, encourage and support men who fulfill obligations to their children, spouse and/or partner. 

While I’m not a parent, my lover of many years had three children for whom I became a second dad. I admire those who have made and maintained complex life choices, whether gay, straight, transgender or bisexual.  And I also love working with women and couples.